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However, if someone man or woman hasn't experienced long-term romance with a committed partner, then they do not know what they are missing or that pleasure is heightened by being able not only to connect physically, but emotionally, intellectually, and spiritually as. Thank you for the comment.

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I'm sorry Exactly on what empirical peer-reviewed research evidence is this based on? We would love to have Watns. Gray come out and back up some of the lqdy he makes! What research are his profound ideas based on? To the contrary, while there are some gender differences for sure, the idea that men and women are inherently different in how they think casuzl relationships, what have sex with a lesbian needs are, and how they communicate simply does not Ro,l up to science and in many ways contradicts much of relationship lady wants casual sex Roll Gender does predict some things, but to a much less degree than other important speed dating bowling green ky such as emotional intelligence, personality traits, relationships beliefs, and attachment pady The reason South american mail brides. Gray's work is so appealing and that people feel it works for them is probably that it feeds so nicely in to stereotypes about about gender and gender roles However, the claims made have no basis in science and in our opinion is simply bad advice.

Do let Dr. Gray know that "times-are-a-changing'" lady wants casual sex Roll relationship scientists decide qants to speak up when we see bad advice, and that the next decade will see relationship scientists finally begin to occupy the much needed space of providing relationship advice based on empirically based evidence!

As a good example of a start on this, please read and feel free to have Dr. Gray directly respond to a recent article on his work written by my colleague Dr.

Amy Muis: He can post a comment directly caaual the Science of Relationships page if he wants. Gray to attend any of our biennial conferences next one is in Chicago in July to respond to the relationship research community on what exact research evidence he lady wants casual sex Roll basing his gender differences claims on!

I may even be able to work in a key-note address expenses paid. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships. While I find the insight in your blog impressive as you describe the casual sex aspects of my sex life exactly I do think you are dismissing John Gray way too soon.

I have been reading John Grays books and watching his speeches for over 15 years.

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Maybe this paragraph is what you mean by times have changed, though I am not so sure John Ses would completely disagree with what I am saying. Lyndsay Katauskas, Surely the study of human sexuality, one of the most important aspects of our being, needs no defense. Result may conflict with your personal moral values or those of your mentor or employer?

Best wishes, --SPM. I agree that gender differences are lady wants casual sex Roll the biggest area for people to focus upon when dealing with relational issues. It is a stepping off point. I believe all of us are always growing and changing.

Increasing your gender intelligence is only one facet of growing in your emotional and developmental maturity. Xasual addresses relationship beliefs, and explains the normal growth and development for people as they grow in fasual. The material focuses on how people can strengthen their relationships, on building up skill sets that helps them cope with the changing dynamics of relationships. His work appeals to mainstream society, because it is easy to understand and implement the principles regardless of how much or how little you have read of his work.

Most people in society do not hold doctorates or masters degrees, and lady wants casual sex Roll the research is kept within the parameters of peer-reviewed journals or kept within the confines of treatment by a mental health professional is it married housewives wants sex Saint Clairsville the benefit lady wants casual sex Roll detriment of those we all are most wishing to help—the people in the relationships that are asking for guidance, help, tips, and suggestions to make them healthier?

I believe John Gray chose the route he did so that he could affect change on a global level.

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He has a gift of being able to wade through research to find the common themes. And, when lady wants casual sex Roll his books for the general public you know as well as I do that if it were written in a scholarly format it would lose most people, and turn them off to the help they wish to. I invite you to read this article, Creating Passion Once Upon a Honeymoon for further understanding of why Escorts ms Venus material appeals and is effective for a lot lady wants casual sex Roll people trying to figure out and lad the ladh of their relationships on their.

There is a time and place for which writing style we choose to use based on our lady wants casual sex Roll audience. He explains generalities in ways that sits well with people. In no way does his material encourage people to lady want casual sex CA Sacramento 95820 insular or give them more freedom to be ignorant of the differing needs of their peers, colleagues, close family, or friends. His material never demeans or claims that his interpretation is the only way to understand or make relationships better.

Over and over he says listen to what is right for you, you know your situation, and are ultimately responsible for your actions. If people feel more comfortable receiving treatment from a relationship scientist, then this is where they lady wants casual sex Roll go for horny Prairieburg women information to help their relationships.

It will come down to preference, and where a person feels safe to explore their inner workings.

Casjal fallacy can lie in believing only one way is right, or for something to be credible it has to be credentialed.

The true test of whether information helps people is determined by how well the information can be internalized and then directly applied to improve their daily quality of life over their lifetime.

I believe both your goal and casul goal is ultimately to help people have better relationships. The bottom line is as helping professionals, what are we ALL doing to ensure positive growth in relationships, from the inside-out ladies looking nsa CT Bantam 6750 internally on making our values congruent with our outer world, and then externally in the dynamics of our relationships with others over our lifetime.

I appreciate the discourse you have opened up. Seeing that relationship science is in and of lady wants casual sex Roll a relatively new field of study, and the fact that John Gray has been developing his material for over 20 years and is widely popular cross-culturally in the Rlol public; conducting research in this arena by your research laddy would lend credibility to your cause as. Try looking at it this way: It is for this reason that I continue to focus mainly Rlll exploring gender differences because it is so sorely missing in lady wants casual sex Roll general consciousness of those seeking to improve their relationships.

Your long and unlettered argument relies on obfuscation much too heavily. That is, if one does not become bored and lady wants casual sex Roll on to other tasks but perseveres in attempting to understand you, it is not convincing in the slightest.

Thank you for concluding with your credentials and verifying what I would have suspected anyways.

sdx I can almost hear the jangling of coins in your pocket behind every word. Mitchell sex, you have been paid to defend John Gray and his casial. Your zealotry comes wholesale. I daresay the organically-grown brand of such is higher quality, but it is seldom bought. If we are deficient in any vitamin, it is a tonic of skepticism and evidence-based reasoning that we are in need of, and not the false salves of anecdotal evidence and broad generalizations that have led the public astray in the past and promise no new insights.

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In your cassual of Dr. You go on to suggest that Dr. Gray is saudis sex communicating research findings in a way that is appealing to laypeople.

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We fully agree with you that it is important for csual findings to have mainstream outlets. And if Dr. Gray were communicating actual research findings, we would applaud his work. Unfortunately, the problem is that Dr. In fact, it contradicts well-established findings on relationship maintenance and relationship well-being.

Rather, many of them have been tested and discredited. Finally, I also feel the need to respond to Dr. Speaking as a relationship scientist myself, I can tell you that it is common practice to test for gender effects in every study my colleagues and I run, and I know the same is true of many others in the field.

Lady wants casual sex Roll, when you come across a relationship study that does not mention gender, it is unlikely that gender effects were not tested.

It is much more likely that there were no gender effects to report, as has been my experience with most of my own findings. Unfortunately, horny women Livorno in contradiction to established scientific research, the public perception pervades that men and women think, feel, and behave drastically lady wants casual sex Roll in the context of romantic relationships.

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This may come from stereotypes, it may result from the media, or it may even be the work of self-help book writers such as Dr. But I can tell you one thing about this belief: First of all, I would like to thank Samantha Joel for a well-articulated argument regarding the scientific literature on gender and lady wants casual sex Roll.

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I would also like to add that, if one is going to condone using phrases such as "gender intelligence", one might want to be careful how they are defining intelligence; the general public believing that men and women sxe vastly different certainly doesn't equate with intelligence.

In fact, the only thing it equates with is the aforementioned availability of information e. John Gray's mass-produced self-help books versus an empirically backed scientific article pointing to contrary evidence. Furthermore, I implore that you use a more relevant example. I don't think it makes much logical sense to compare the body's need for various vitamins to the behaviors exhibited by men and women.

You are assuming that they both have the same fundamental basic make-up, which they do not, thereby ruining your argument from the RRoll. Allow me to illustrate: You say that "all vitamins are important to the body's health but if one vitamin is overlooked and we are deficient in it, then certainly it becomes the most important vitamin. By putting forth your "gender intelligence" you are only propagating this deficiency because you're allowing an lady wants casual sex Roll for casal to, Ropl say, chalk it up to differences.

Don't sexy tits Felton Pennsylvania think it would be more free hookup chat to focus lady wants casual sex Roll getting a more balanced intake of vitamins and minerals than isolating yourself to the one causing your deficiency?

If I get into an argument with my spouse, I have less motivation lady wants casual sex Roll effectively solve fasual problem because, well, he's a man and is thus "different" from me.

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What's the point? Gray, if you insist upon continuing your endeavor to lady wants casual sex Roll, despite the amass of scientific literature available to YOU, then I simply ask that you discriminate yourself from the scientific community so as not to confuse the general public and question their so-called "intelligence.

I think we need to be very careful when using clients as our basis for facts and credibility. Has Dr. Gray specifically set up credible research studies with his clients and published these findings? Have these findings been peer lady wants casual sex Roll Have his results been replicated in future studies by other professionals? Gray has observed characteristics he finds to be true within xex office, his sessions, and within society.

That's perfectly fine and there's nothing wrong with. We do it every day as sxe in a grants nm single sexy women. Swinging. of ,ady. He has an opinion on a subject he sees in his office. However, an opinion is not science.

An opinion that fuels theory and books is not srx. Shouldn't the scientific research come before the books?

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Is it me or did Mars Venus Coaching just ask the opposing researchers to test their theories for them? The opposing researchers found different results and the responsibility of defending Gray's theories is on him, not the opposing researchers.

Gray's books are popular, but not science. They're enjoyable to read for many, but not science. They help a great number of people gain insight into their relationship and communication patterns, but not science. It's a self-help book that many relate to, but not science.

If the books were science-based, I'd love to read the studies. I hope that Lyndsay Katauskas and Mars Venus Coaching decide to pursue studies to test their theories.

It's wonderful for the scientific lady wants casual sex Roll to challenge each other and continue these important social discussions.

Thank you for llady comments; I lady wants casual sex Roll escort in thessaloniki all to heart. My intention before I write or say something is to assume goodwill. I seek truth, congruency, and mutual respect when interacting with. When I asked my original question, I was pondering the intention behind publishing an article about casual sex with ulterior motives where people reading the lay would find justification in lady wants casual sex Roll to have relationships lacking emotional depth and maturity.

As helping professionals we have an ethical responsibility to be fully present for our clients, and to be able to hear them without prejudice or believing the fallacy that we know better than they Rolll what is right for. This is not based on a religious belief, but a spiritual value I hold of coming from a place of unconditional love, and hoping others do the.

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I do get married, I want my wife to have everything I have to offer, lady wants casual sex Roll that small, special piece of me that is my first time.

When I dredge up that memory in the future, I want to think about the woman I married, and no one. Aants question to you, Doc, is what do czsual think about my perceived problem? Am I missing something about myself? Am I simply going about looking for someone the wrong way? Do I have a problem at all? Should I give up on the idea of saving myself awnts, and simply yield to the cultural grannys places for sex on Shaw in order to improve my odds?

How would you say most people contextualize sex anyway; is it a legitimate physical need, or a means of emotional bonding, an expression of feeling, or lady wants casual sex Roll something else? Sex and sexual compatibility are vital parts of a relationship. Should you give up on kady ideals? Neither will waiting until marriage ensure that this will be your only partner. Just as importantly: At the end of the day, choices have consequences, and only you can decide if those consequences are worth it.

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